In a survey conducted by Z!KOKO, this April, about 6 women stated their reasons why they cheat on their men. The survey was carrying between women, age 23-29. Read their reasons below…
1. Lilian, 23: “I wanted something different”.
I just wanted something different. I was already dating my current boyfriend for a while and but we slipped into a routine that was beginning to bore me. I just wanted a different kind of sex I guess, and attention.
2. Jennifer, 26: “I did it to get back at my boyfriend“.
I’m not proud of it. But I did it to get back at my boyfriend because he was cheating too. And the sex turned out to be so good I couldn’t stop.
3. Jasmine, 25: “I just wanted to”.
I just wanted to, probably me being adventurous. But it did not end in praise sha.
4. Ivie, 29: “I stopped investing in one person”.
I cheat all the time because I stopped investing all my emotions in one person. It always ends in heartbreak, so why not catch fun.
5. Ada, 26: “I wanted to be spoiled”.
I wanted to be spoiled. My boyfriend at the time knew nothing about making a women feel special. But I loved him because he was smart and ambitious. Although sometimes it felt like he was numb to my emotions. Then I met someone else who was willing to give me the baby girl treatment. Of course I was not going to deny myself the pleasure.
6. Ij, 22: “Distance was taking a toll on me”.
Distance was taking a toll on me so I just found myself doing it. But I stopped before it ruined my relationship. Besides, long distance relationships are too stressful. And it hits harder if the relationship did not start as one.